Quiet the Noise.

When I talk about quieting the outside noise, I’m not talking about the outside traffic noise. Unless that noise irritates you, then yes you have to learn how to ignore that because we want to try to get rid of all those reactive behaviors. Getting irritated is a reactive behavior. Anger is a reactive behavior.…

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How to Manifest in 60 Seconds.

You can manifest within minutes, or it may take years. True manifestation for me took many, many years. Little things happened right away. Little things happened all the time right away. When you focus in your energy, you’re positive, grateful and you believe it, it’s going to happen. In my early years when I was…

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Be the Best Person

Be the Best Person If you’re brand new to spirituality, my first word of advice is to write down on a piece of paper, I am going to be the best person that I can be today. And I want you to stick that piece of paper on a mirror, in your car, on your…

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Forgiveness Forgiveness is a huge piece of the puzzle. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to go up to somebody that has wronged you and say to their face, “I forgive you.” Forgiveness is an inner peace and healing. That’s what true forgiveness is. So, if you’re holding onto resentment, you haven’t forgiven.  …

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Ego Mastery

Ego Mastery Ego mastery is a lifetime lesson. Learning all about the ego, what is the ego, when does your ego take place and when it is okay for the ego to take place. Ego mastery is probably the lifelong lesson for everybody to work on and to learn about. I didn’t really understand what…

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What Is Manifesting?

What is manifesting? Manifesting is a state of mind, manifesting is creating. Every time you think a thought you are manifesting, you just don’t realize it. Our thoughts become actions, our thoughts become reality. Manifesting is simply creating. That’s why my book is titled, “Create the Life You Desire,” instead of manifest the life you…

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Women. Wealth. Worth.

Women. Wealth. Worth. Event! Learn the secrets to financial success to eliminate stress with Roxana and Shilamida! Elevate your confidence. Transform your mindset. Command your worth. Registration is required. Space is limited! Bonus: Cocktail Party! Meet Shilamida: Shilamida is passionate about helping women live their happiest, most fulfilled, and well deserved life. She does this…

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Me Too

Me Too. Have you seen this yet in your facebook timeline? A bunch of women saying Me Too? Some with an explanation, some without? I am not gonna lie. When I first saw it, I was like wow, courageous, then I felt sad, hurt, shame. Me Too! I was also sexually assaulted on more than…

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Worry is Wasteful

Are you ready to Create the Life You Desire? Comment YES and sign up at! There is so much going on in the world right now that a lot of people are experiencing a lot of unnecessary worry. I mean I can’t really blame them. People in Puerto Rico and the smaller islands affected by…

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It is my pleasure to work with you on your emotional, mental, and physical being. I’m here to help you find alignment. We were all brought here for a reason and to fulfill a purpose. If you are ready, open and willing, I can help you find yours. It’s time that you live the life you’re meant to live! You deserve it and it is my mission in life to help you achieve that.

I’m looking forward to learning and growing with you!

XO Shilamida