IT'S SHILAMIDA

I am so happy you landed on my page! My name is Shilamida (Chill with a Sh-ill-ahh-mee-dah) I love to smile, make people laugh and celebrate life. I have lived quite the life and the stories I share are inspiring and motivating! If you vibe with me then, we can create magic together! Looking forward to getting to know each other.

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Are you constantly worrying about what others think? Saying yes when you really want to say no? You might be stuck in people pleasing — and it’s time to break free.

Inside my membership Gratitude 365, this theme has been coming up big lately. But it’s not just my community — it’s everywhere. Most women I know struggle with this. And I used to be one of them.

From People Pleaser to Empowered Woman

I dimmed my light to avoid judgment. I stayed quiet to keep the peace. And I put everyone else first — until I was burned out and bitter.

Here’s what I know now:
✔️ Your confidence is magnetic when you stop apologizing for who you are.

✔️ The right people won’t be triggered by your light — they’ll be inspired by it.

✔️ How Gratitude 365 Helps You Break the Pattern

Gratitude 365 isn’t just a gratitude journal — it’s a guided space where I help you:

  • Shift out of people pleasing
  • Build real, unshakable confidence
  • Align with abundance and self-worth
  • Manifest your desires through gratitude and intention

You get my eyes on your daily gratitude, intentions, and manifestations — so you’re never doing it alone.

Ready to Stop Playing Small?

If you’re done shrinking to make others comfortable, Gratitude 365 is your next step. Join us and learn how to forgive, receive, and believe that you’re worthy of it all.

✨ Say yes to yourself today: Click here to join Gratitude 365

Stop People Pleasing and Start Shining: Reclaim Your Confidence with Gratitude

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Are you constantly worrying about what others think? Saying yes when you really want to say no? You might be stuck in people pleasing — and it’s time to break free. Inside my membership Gratitude 365, this theme has been coming up big lately. But it’s not just my community — it’s everywhere. Most women […]

Stop People Pleasing and Start Shining: Reclaim Your Confidence with Gratitude

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