
Slut.
Whore.
Home wrecker.
Racist.
Narcissist.
Selfish.
Too much.
Fat.
Weird.
These are just some of the words I’ve had hurled at me over the years.
Words that weren’t mine—but somehow clung to me like a second skin.
They were projections. Other people’s pain, judgment, and misunderstanding, thrown in my direction while I was already fighting silent battles of my own. Struggling to survive in my own mind. In my own body.
I felt shackled by it all.
Dependent on outside validation… hanging on to someone else’s opinion of me as if it were true. Craving admiration, applause—anything that would make me feel seen and loved. As a Projector (in Human Design), I needed that recognition. But what I received instead was rejection. So I dimmed. I shut down. I became bitter.
I lived with the familiar weight of shame. Of guilt. Of hopelessness. Of helplessness.
And the truth is, many of us do.
There’s supposed to be some sacred rite of passage when we step into womanhood—but where is it? Where’s the guidance? The wisdom? The space to be held and nurtured while we become?
Most of us were never even taught how to feel safe in our own skin, let alone how to create life, lead, love, or rise.
So we survive. We live in fear. In reaction. In protection.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. You can choose to GROW.
You can re-parent the child within you.
You can learn to love her. To honor her. To tell her she did it right.
That she is not the name they called her.
She is not the stories they told about her.
When you start to build real confidence in yourself…
When you forgive yourself…
That’s when the floodgates open.
That’s when you finally begin to receive what you desire—not just what you settle for.
It’s time to GROW up. To change your mind so you can change your life.
You hold the power now. 💥
If this speaks to you, I want to invite you to join me for a FREE masterclass happening this Friday, June 6th — a powerful, transformational space where we’re going to go deep, heal the inner child, and reclaim the woman you came here to be.
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You deserve this. You’re not too much. You’re not broken. You’re becoming. ✨