IT'S SHILAMIDA

I am so happy you landed on my page! My name is Shilamida (Chill with a Sh-ill-ahh-mee-dah) I love to smile, make people laugh and celebrate life. I have lived quite the life and the stories I share are inspiring and motivating! If you vibe with me then, we can create magic together! Looking forward to getting to know each other.

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Shame.
It was the background noise of my life for as long as I can remember.

Shame as a child over my body.
Shame as a teenager for not looking like “them.”
Shame as a young woman, trying to fit in while feeling unworthy in my own skin.

And that shame… spiraled.

It showed up in the way I treated myself.  On the way I gave away my body. In the way I allowed my vessel to be the one holding the wisdom of my soul, to be disrespected, even by me.

How Human Design Helped Me Understand the Pattern

I now know that I’m a Projector in Human Design, and that body shame is a common thread in many Projector journeys especially for those walking the 3-line phase of the 6-line life path.

And oh, did I crash and burn during that phase.
🔥 Big emotions.
🔥 Painful lessons.
🔥 Mistakes I needed to learn from.

But I also know this:

It wasn’t a failure. It was the process. It was part of the initiation I needed to become the woman I am now.

From Shame to Reclamation

For so long, I desperately needed to be seen.  I gave parts of myself away, hoping for validation. For love. For worth.

But I’ve learned…

✨ It’s not about being seen by others first.
✨ It’s about standing in your truth and saying, “Here I am.”
✨ It’s about seeing yourself, with compassion, love, and reverence.

I’ve forgiven myself for the ways I once treated my body. Now, I honor her. I listen. I soften.

Because she is not something to be fixed. She is sacred. She is mine.

Reclaim Your Power With Me

If you’ve ever carried shame for your body…
If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or out of alignment…
I want you to know: You’re not alone.

There’s a new way to walk through life and one rooted in awareness, self-love, and energetic alignment.

And I’m sharing that next step in a FREE Human Design Masterclass.

🌀 We’re diving deep into the wisdom of your design
🌀 We’re healing old wounds
🌀 We’re reclaiming the power that was always yours

👉 Save your seat here:

It’s time to release the shame and remember your truth. It’s time for reclamation.

Reclaiming My Body: Healing Shame Through Human Design

Human Design

Shame.It was the background noise of my life for as long as I can remember. Shame as a child over my body.Shame as a teenager for not looking like “them.”Shame as a young woman, trying to fit in while feeling unworthy in my own skin. And that shame… spiraled. It showed up in the way […]

Reclaiming My Body: Healing Shame Through Human Design

Human Design

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