IT'S SHILAMIDA

I am so happy you landed on my page! My name is Shilamida (Chill with a Sh-ill-ahh-mee-dah) I love to smile, make people laugh and celebrate life. I have lived quite the life and the stories I share are inspiring and motivating! If you vibe with me then, we can create magic together! Looking forward to getting to know each other.

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Today, I’m celebrating something I never thought would be part of my story:

🎉 22 months alcohol-free.

Even writing that feels surreal. Once upon a time, alcohol was a constant in my life—a go-to for celebrations, social moments, and even self-soothing. I craved it. I relied on it. It was embedded in my identity.

But now? I don’t miss it. I don’t think about it. And I’ve never been more free.

Letting Go of Old Habits to Make Room for Healing

Alcohol used to be the only way I knew how to celebrate. But I’ve since taught myself a better way. A deeper way.

I celebrate through presence, peace, and purpose. Through dancing, prayer, nature, journaling, connection, laughter.

The more I healed, the more I realized alcohol was just a placeholder. A temporary escape from the version of me that needed more love, not less control.

Co-Creating My Life with God

My life today is radically different, and beautifully aligned.

I live a life that I co-create with God. I ask for guidance, and I am led. I move in trust, not fear.

And through that surrender, I’ve found more joy, clarity, and inner peace than I ever imagined possible.

The Ripple Effect of Self-Love

The deeper I love myself, the more I give others permission to do the same.

That’s my ripple. 🌊
That’s my whys.
Because when one woman chooses healing, celebration, and alignment over coping, she becomes a light for others.

Why This Matters (More Than Ever)

This isn’t about judgment or perfection. It’s about choice. Empowerment. Awareness. Whether you’re considering a sober lifestyle or simply craving something more, know this:

✨ You can evolve.
✨ You can rewire how you celebrate, cope, and connect.
✨ You can become the woman you were always meant to be.

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Today, I’m celebrating something I never thought would be part of my story: 🎉 22 months alcohol-free. Even writing that feels surreal. Once upon a time, alcohol was a constant in my life—a go-to for celebrations, social moments, and even self-soothing. I craved it. I relied on it. It was embedded in my identity. But […]

22 Months Alcohol-Free: My Journey to Joy, Alignment, and Self-Love

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