May 27, 2011 𝐓𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐀𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐭
Today started as an ordinary day, but would not end that way…
Benjamin: I told her
Me: heart sinks into stomach. Told who what? Benjamin: I told my wife I was leaving her.
Me:what?? whyyyy did you do that? Today? Of all days?? I thought you were going to wait until the kids went to camp.
Benjamin: well they both went away for the weekend… Me: heart racing, sweating…
Me: omg I don’t know what to say. What did 𝑠ℎ𝑒 say?
Ben: she asked me if I was having an affair. Me:what did you say?
Ben: I said no
Me:why did you lie?
Ben: I don’t know it just came out. I didn’t want her to think I was leaving bc of you. I want her to understand that our marriage has been over for a long time.
Ben: It’s gonna be ok princess. She hates me. Once the dust settles, she will realize this was a good thing. Me:
Ben: I’ll be divorced in 6-12 months and you and me will be together forever… do you trust me?
Ben: I love you. I’ll call you tomorrow. Me: ok, I love you too
How long of a divorce do you think we lived through? Will he tell her the truth?
This picture was taken in Hawaii and it is a forever love gesture