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What’s Holding You Back?

November 21, 2018

Unconditional love is the most important lesson. We all come from a place of love, every single one of us. Even if you came into this world and you were an accident, a product of rape or whatever your sad story is about your birth, we all still came from a place of love because life creation is all about love. We were sent here to live in love, and to experience love. Along the way we get lost and we learn fear. We learn fear at a very early age. We learn fear in our infancy stage, when we're crawling on the fl[...]

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Are You Being Guided?

November 14, 2018

It's super important to understand that the universe has your back. You have to trust that you're exactly where you're supposed to be! Even if life feels like you're not, you are. You have to believe in the process! You have to believe that things are going to happen the way that you want them to happen, but detach yourself from the outcome for when they don’t. If you don't believe, and you don't trust, then you're living in fear. You're living based on depending on your own strength! But you have to realize[...]

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Give to Receive

November 7, 2018

You have to give in order to receive. We tend to live in a state of “What am I getting?” That's how most people are living. You go to work and you get a paycheck. You are in a relationship and you get love. We're always looking to receive, but we don't give enough. The first thing that I want you to work on is a practice of sharing and giving. That could be in a monetary form, volunteering, or just being of service. That's my motto in life, when I'm in need I am of service and whenever I see that I could be hel[...]

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When Is The Best Time To Manifest?

October 31, 2018

The best time to manifest is anytime. Some people like to wake up their day and start first thing in the morning. For example, "I'm grateful I'm alive, I'm grateful I started this day, I'm grateful that this day is going to be great." That's one of the best ways to do it. Also, the night before it's good to set your intention for the next day. Such as, "I'm grateful tomorrow's gonna be an amazing day, I'm grateful, everybody I talk to on the phone is going to be kind and loving, I'm grateful that every person t[...]

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How to Manifest in 60 Seconds.

October 24, 2018

You can manifest within minutes, or it may take years. True manifestation for me took many, many years. Little things happened right away. Little things happened all the time right away. When you focus in your energy, you're positive, grateful and you believe it, it's going to happen. In my early years when I was a single mom and I was broke, anytime I couldn't pay my rent, I would immediately pull out my gratitude journal and I would start being grateful. Within 24 hours the phone calls would start coming throu[...]

Lifestyle

Be the Best Person

October 17, 2018

Be the Best Person If you're brand new to spirituality, my first word of advice is to write down on a piece of paper, I am going to be the best person that I can be today. And I want you to stick that piece of paper on a mirror, in your car, on your computer and I just want you to look at that statement all day long. I am going to be the best person I can possibly be today. I want you to live by those words. We're never gonna be perfect, we're always gonna make mistakes; I make mistakes. We're never going[...]

Gratitude

Forgiveness

October 10, 2018

Forgiveness Forgiveness is a huge piece of the puzzle. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to go up to somebody that has wronged you and say to their face, "I forgive you." Forgiveness is an inner peace and healing. That's what true forgiveness is. So, if you're holding onto resentment, you haven't forgiven. Forgiveness means you've let that emotion go, you've let go of the anger, you've let go of that resentment. If you're holding on, you're not forgiving, and you're really hurting yourse[...]

Gratitude

Ego Mastery

October 3, 2018

Ego Mastery Ego mastery is a lifetime lesson. Learning all about the ego, what is the ego, when does your ego take place and when it is okay for the ego to take place. Ego mastery is probably the lifelong lesson for everybody to work on and to learn about. I didn't really understand what the ego was until I was in my early 20s. I was working a job where I was making six figures. I was very egotistical, but I didn't really understand that or know that. I did very well in my position and I was v[...]

Manifesting

What Is Manifesting?

September 26, 2018

What is manifesting? Manifesting is a state of mind, manifesting is creating. Every time you think a thought you are manifesting, you just don't realize it. Our thoughts become actions, our thoughts become reality. Manifesting is simply creating. That's why my book is titled, “Create the Life You Desire,” instead of manifest the life you desire because a lot of people don't understand what the term manifest is. Everything that we're living through right now is what we've created for ourselves. It has been ou[...]

Gratitude

Attitude of Gratitude

September 19, 2018

Attitude of GratitudeAttitude of gratitude. It’s the way that you have to be. I mean, that is it. If you could just wake up every day and start your day with I am grateful that I am alive, I am grateful that I slept in a bed, I am grateful I had clean sheets, I am grateful I had water to shower with, I am grateful … You just really have to hone in on the gratitude practice. When you are in an attitude of gratitude you align yourself with whatever you want and need.A few weeks ago, I went to Gabby Bernstei[...]

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